“I live in New York City. I was born in Massachusetts and raised in small rural towns in Idaho, where I ended up being the only Asian girl in school. This comes with its own difficulties, but it set me up to be very proud of being Lao. ”
Because of the environment I was raised in, it was difficult to be fully immersed in my Lao culture, which has always left me yearning to be more connected and to learn more.
“This curiosity to continually seek and better understand, has been woven into all of my work and specifically through my creative and healing project, BACII - which is focused on life through the lens of our impermanence.
“Two contrasting baci ceremonies that left an impact on me include a time when my family and I went on a roadtrip to see our family. I'll never forget how many people were there, how much food was cooked, all the lively energy, music and celebrating. This was a celebration of welcoming us to my grandmother's home and during our departure white strings were tied to my wrists. These memories have stayed with me as much of my environment growing up lacked many of these elements.”
BACII is influenced and inspired by my experiences with both life and death,
and by Laotian baci ceremonies.”
Years later, my uncle passed away at a young age. Reuniting with my Lao family during a difficult time while experiencing baci rituals with Buddhist monks showed me how grief and joy and even life and death can all exist at once. I still have those white strings from that ceremony. Each baci ceremony or ritual that I've experienced continues to keep me connected to my roots, family, culture, and how I experience and live my life and continues to influence my work with BACII.
“These ceremonies served as literal strings of connection to my family and to Lao culture. No matter what the reason for gathering was, these rituals and blessings have always greatly impacted my life.”
“My father is a continual source of love and inspiration. He’s always encouraged me to live my life to the fullest, to do everything that I want to do, and most importantly, to be happy, however that may look as long as it’s true to me.”
“Understanding my father’s story and his hardships allows me to understand his deep appreciation for life. This way of living has inspired me to do the same.”
“There is so much of our culture that my father wasn’t able to teach me, so I’ve made it a point in my life to continually ask and listen for the stories and traditions that may have been lost with time.”
“ I love the warmth and celebration of life from Lao culture. I love the food, I love the way Lao people gather. I love the traditional prints and textiles and all the sounds, from the language to the rhythm of the music. I’m so inspired and proud to be Lao that I’m continually trying to weave it into all of the work that I do. “
“Throughout my life, I’ve continually had to dig deeper into what brings me a sense of meaning and joy. This has come with many sacrifices, but it’s been worth it for me as long as I can continue creating meaning in my life and in my work. This is a privilege my parents didn’t have, so they often don’t understand when I’ve chosen to take certain paths. This also has come with a lot of pressure!
“Since my parents have always been extremely hard working, it’s natural for me to be driven. I’ve always wanted to experience so many different parts of life, and in order to do so, I’ve had to work hard. My first job was at 13! I’ve had many different jobs, learned many lessons and I’m constantly going against the grain.”
“Focus on the reason ‘why’ you’d like to do something. This matters more than any of your doubts, fears or outcomes.”
“Turn mistakes into lessons.”
“Remember that this life is short, so continually ask yourself how you want to live it.”
“I wish for BACII to continually evolve and expand in order to have sustainable programming and services that are committed to educating, uplifting, and bringing more healing and inspiration to our communities. I want to give back and uplift Lao people and the culture!”
“Last year, I launched BACII right before COVID hit NYC. Since then, I’ve hosted or collaborated on monthly events, I’ve been invited to speak at different organizations, and BACII’s work has been featured in media outlets such as Vogue and Byrdie. Through all of these opportunities and gatherings, I’ve been able to share and uplift Lao culture with everyone that I meet!”
